“Our Silence Is Killing Our Women”

A scary but realistic impression of what society condones — and what it should not reflect. Respect, value, and stop the violence against women!

-A National Crisis Demands a National Response
-This Isn’t Just on Leaders — It’s on All of Us

For far too long, the majority of society has remained disturbingly silent — watching, judging, and unjustly blaming women for the abuse they endure.


That silence is costing lives, and it is time to confront the ignorance, complacency, and blatant disregard directed at victims.


It is time to demand accountability from ourselves and each other.


In light of the recent horrifying incidents — one, where a woman was attacked, abused, and sexually assaulted in a bar while bystanders watched and did nothing, and another, where a young mother was gunned down by her ex-partner.

These incidents are just two of many, and they are not mere stories. These are real women in real places, experiencing real violence.


Sadly, these two unfortunate incidents have been widely shared on social media and viewed by thousands — including victims facing similar circumstances, who are also fearing the worst for themselves.


With each unspoken view, another piece of humanity crumbles. These are not isolated tragedies; they are part of a disturbing pattern — one that is sadly being experienced in Guyana and across the world.


Every time society turns away, every time it remains silent, it becomes complicit.


Where is the humanity? Where are the voices when women are being torn down in front of society?


Guyana is known for its warmth, strong sense of community, and resilience. It is a nation that comes together in times of celebration, whether during cricket matches or religious and cultural festivities.

Unfortunately, it is also a country where some individuals use their freedom of speech to be outspoken on trivial matters, occasionally resorting to personal attacks.


However, when it comes to protecting the daughters, sisters, and mothers in society, many remain silent or deflect responsibility onto politicians, law enforcement, or the system.


Ask yourself: What have you done to help? What conversations are you having in your home, in your community, and on social media? What are you doing to change a culture that normalises abuse?


This is not a political issue; it is not about race, religion, or gender. This is a national issue that demands a united, national response.


Too many women are suffering in silence, not only because of their abusers but because society pressures them into silence.


The judgement, shame, and disbelief that women face are emotional and psychological weapons just as harmful as physical violence.


This is not just about one woman in Guyana; this is about every young girl around the world who is being told to stay quiet after being touched inappropriately.


This is about the mother who hides her bruises with a smile, the grandmother who never had the chance to speak her truth, and every woman who walks home with fear in her heart.


Ask yourself: What type of society are you creating when women are no longer safe, even among their own?


For generations, women have proven to be the backbone of families and communities. They have raised children, worked tirelessly, supported others, and contributed to building a nation. Despite all of this, society insists that they must earn the respect they rightfully deserve.


They are catcalled, touched without consent, told to dress differently, and blamed for the violence inflicted on them. They are silenced, and too often, they are not believed.


This isn’t just unfair — it’s dangerous.


To the parents raising sons: Thank you if you’re teaching them to respect women. But for those who aren’t — the time is now. Teach your boys to value, respect, and stand with women, not against them. Show them that being a man is not about dominance but about protection, empathy, and courage.


To the women of Guyana: You are not alone—no matter how isolating it may feel at times. Your voice matters, and your pain is valid. You are seen, you are heard, and there are people who believe in you and continue to fight for your dignity, your safety, and your future.


Guyana is no longer considered a “third world” country, where there is no value for its people and respect for their opinions. It is a country where the leaders and lawmakers are collaborating to invest in physical transformation, as well as enacting laws that promote values and respect for all, especially women.


It is becoming a society where the implementation of effective policies is essential and where comprehensive approaches are taken to eliminate all forms of violence, which will ensure that women can live in a safer, more dignified community.


To the bystanders: If you see something and do nothing, you are part of the problem. Silence is not neutral. It enables abuse.


To the leaders and lawmakers: While your efforts to remove the abusers from society are respected, the nation remains hopeful for stronger laws, swifter justice, safer spaces, and enhanced support systems, so that victims can trust the system and feel truly protected.


To the abusers: Be warned — silence is no longer an option. Accountability is imminent. This is no longer a one-person fight; it is a nation’s fight for what is right for another human being.


To the men who respect, support, and stand up for women: You are seen, you are appreciated, and you are respected for embodying what it truly means to be a man in today’s society. Your actions set a powerful example, and they do not go unnoticed.

Guyana is rising, and together with the government, communities, religious leaders, and citizens, they are shaping a future where every woman, daughter, sister, mother, and friend can live a freer, safer life.

As the nation evolves, so too does the understanding that true progress means uplifting one another. It means building a society where women are not only seen but truly heard, valued, and protected.

The President of Guyana, Dr. Mohamed Irfaan Ali and his administration speak of their vision for Guyana. One where no woman is forced to scream in silence; where respect is given freely, not begged for; and where women stand with each other, not in judgment, but in solidarity, strength, and support.

Enough is enough!


The time for change is now, Guyana! Rise together as a nation and “be the change we want to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

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